Monimuotoinen aihe, mitä en eräiltä osin täysin ymmärrä.
Arvokeskustelu näyttää olevan usein kateudenvimmaista valtataistelua ja moniarvoisuuden mitätöintiä. Kun erilaisuus latistetaan tasapäisyydeksi ja kaikki tekevät samaa samoin ehdoin, saadaan jotain mitä kuvitellaan tasa-arvoksi? Mitä arvoa sillä sitten lopulta olisi jos jokainen on arvoltaan samantekevä eli yhtä arvokas kuin kuka tahansa muukin samanlainen? Paitsi ettei sitten enää ainakaan ole, kun normina on arvonnousun estäminen ja lahjakkuuksien käytön syrjiminen, niiden arvon kieltäminen.
Jos joku osaa johtaa hyvin tuloksin, ja siten voi saada lisäarvona toimivuutta suhteeseen, niin minkälaista tasa-arvoa sen vastustamisella voi saavuttaa?
En ymmärrä mitä vastustettavaa eriarvoisuudessa on? Se kun voi merkitä erilaisia arvoja, ja että kukin on arvokas eri tavalla, ja että yksilöiden arvostus on silti tasainen. Jokaista tarvitaan siihen hommaan mihin hänellä on kykyjä, missä voi parhaiten onnistua. Jos ei tämä sovi niin on vain tasa-arvoisisempia ja käyttökelvottomia, arvottomia luusereita (vrt. deitti-netin tarjokkaat).
Ihmissuhdepelejä ja roolileikkejä tai elämäntapoja:
"The Head of the Household is Home! Down Boys!"
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Tämän psykologin saitilla on järkeenkäypää juttua, mutta syvemmät selitykset kokemusperäistä individuaalia kehitelmää, jäävät jotenkin hatariksi. Asiaa, viitteitä, henkilökohtaisia asenteita. Enemmän uskontoa kuin tiedettä. Suositeltava englanninkielinen lukukokemus kiinnostuneille.
Heitä ei hyväksikäytetä vaan he saavat täyttymyksen. Lähes 20:n vuoden praktiikasta huomannut tämän ja mistä se saa alkunsa
Kysymys ja vastaus paloja käännettynä palstalta
"Kuulin että että 19-vuotias poikani aikoo solmia 20- vuotiaan naisen kanssa avioliiton, jota vaimo hallitsee, ja mies alistuu täysin hänelle. Haluaisin tietää miksi kukaan haluaisi luopua vallastaan ja antaa sen kokonaan toiselle?"
"Kuulostaa vain tekosyyltä hyväksikäytölle. Ns. koulutettuna psykologina pitäisi tietää että jotkut hakkaavat ja myöhemmin pyytelevät anteeksi. Kuulostaa itsekkäältä ja että ihmisillä leikitään, eikä se ole rakkautta. En tule koskaan ymmärtämään miksi jotkut haluavat tulla hyväksikäytetyiksi. Heillä täytyy olla niin heikko itsetunto että antavat rakastamansa ihmisen tehdä tehdä mitä tahansa."
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Lainoja ja muuta jorinaa saitilta:
Mainstream Research: Articles about Female Supremacy and Societal Evolution
MOST POWERFUL WOMEN IN BUSINESS
Trophy Husbands
Arm candy? Are you kidding? While their fast-track wives go to work, stay-at-home husbands mind the kids. They deserve a trophy for trading places.
By Betsy Morris, FORTUNE Magazine, 2002
But among the most powerful women- and many other high-level women-this is a red-hot topic. They gossip about it. They know which colleagues have husbands at home and which do not.
Most of all they debate, How important is it to have a man at home helping you get to the top? Very important, says Dina Dublon. "My spouse would say that I probably have enough drive and ambition that I would have done this even if he weren't there," she says. "But there is no doubt in my mind that the extent to which I can do this is because of his willingness to be at home."
Carly Fiorina, chairman and CEO of Hewlett-Packard: "Frank has been a huge source of support. He has been a rock for me; I am tremendously lucky".
Nobody says it's easy. Women must adjust to the burden men have carried all along: the responsibility of being the primary (or sole) breadwinner. They give up not only precious time with their children but often intimacy too. Even as they struggle with that loss, they get a bad rap: They are bad mothers.
It's even more difficult for men. They are always suspect. Everyone wants to know what's wrong with them. Were they fired? Are they losers?
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The Natural Dominance Of Women
By William Bond
For anyone who has read the history of patriarchy over the last five thousand years what it very striking is the great efforts needed to keep Women powerless.
It was traditional for the Somalis people of Somalia, Kenya, Ethiopia and Djibouti for a bride to start married life with a flogging from their husbands.* It seems the newly wedded husband would wait for her in the bridal chamber with a whip in his hand.* This was also true with the Sifon people of Tibet, who traditionally would again start of married life with the husband whipping his bride.
The irony is that if it is natural for men to be the dominant sex why do then men had to create very oppressive laws and customs against Women?*
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Why Women Should Rule the World
FORTUNE 2002, By Justin Fox
Kim Campbell, former Prime Minister of Canada, offered a solution to today's scandal-riddled world: women leaders. Yet in several studies, Campbell said, "results show that when you have a critical mass of women in an organization, you have less corruption." And Campbell warned that "lest you think that all we aspire to for the world can be accomplished by male-dominated organizations, I have only to say to you: Enron, Taliban, Roman Catholic Church."
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Women power: how to market to 51% of Americans
Marketing Intelligence / Joanna L. Krotz
Women purchase or influence the purchase of 80% of all consumer goods, including stocks, computers and automobiles.
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The Wisdom of Women, and why men will never catch up
From the British Daily Mail - June 2002
Women have long asserted that they are cleverer than men. Now Scientists claim to have proved that their intellectual superiority lasts a lifetime.
Research on 600 85 year olds showed the women were much quicker and sharper than then men - despite the female candidates generally having a much lower standard of education.
The results suggest the difference between the male and the female brains is biological, not social, say the researchers. The results are published today in the British Medical Association's Journal of Neurology, Neurosurgery and Psychiatry
Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority
A site dedicated to Female Domination and male submission within loving and caring relationships
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It was men who coined the phrase Female Domination to categorize their sexual and social desires to submit themselves to the female gender.
They will pursue these desires and struggle with these desires trying to come to terms with them but sadly they will not come to terms with them until they truly have a relationship with a woman that can explore these desires with him in a loving manner.
The Female Domination lifestyle can be a win/win relationship for both the woman and the man.
Female Domination did not originate from dominant women or feminists.
I have studied men, women, sexuality, and societal roles in great detail. I* have come to understand submissive men and it is my goal to challenge the female to rise up and to assume her proper place in her relationship, which is to be in charge.
Female Domination, Female Supremacy or Female Superiority;
What Is Female Domination and Female Superiority?
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The Psychoanalysis of the Submissive Male
Ladies, If you want to understand your husband or man better, and if you want to build a deeper and more intimate relationship, perhaps you may want to perform "The Psychoanalysis of the submissive male" on him. It will help you to unlock his deepest and most hidden secrets and enable you to get to know him more completely. You will be on your way toward the marriage and relationship that you've always dreamed about.
Trust me, it is not even on the same planet as the abusive relationship of a husband that beats his wife but the wife is too fearful or too dependent on the husband to leave the relationship.
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